So, you believe that your husband has to have “lost his mind” for him to conclude that he should get in better shape and exit your “life isn’t perfect” marriage? I wonder, does it ever occur to you that he might not be happy with you? That he’s decided he wants more out of himself and life? That his changes aren’t about you or your marriage at all? It’s funny how we celebrate women “finding themselves” – ‘Eating, praying and loving’ and all that, but if a man does it, he’s lost his mind.